Lemme know if you have any answers!
Of losing my loved ones.
90% of us would answer that question likewise.
Last night we received a call from the village about a close relative going through the last stages of his life. such a news is terrifying. I imagine people howling in misery, I imagine how the lady would be treated after her husband’s death, if people would still respect and take care of her the same way as her husband did or she would be left devoid of those privileges that she enjoyed before, most of all if she would be able and willing to survive without him.
They also take me back to the days when I had to cope with someone’s death.
But believe me the biggest loss is of the spouse’s.
Death is certainly the most painful thing about life. When I was a child, I remember crying for a short time every night about my grandparents growing old or rather- nearing death. Now I fear losing everybody for nothing in this world seems to be certain. Isn’t it unfair to be given an entire life to love people and then also cope with losing them?
Sometimes I wonder where these people would be going after their death…if there is really a heaven and a hell, if they are still watching everything we do and everything we say, if we would meet them all again when finally death takes over us.
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@ Divvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvuuuuuuu
Hehehe.. It's my nick too, u know ;)
Yeah. I fear losing my loved ones. A lot. And I grow attached to people SO easily.
The scariest part is, if you don't know WHEN. I mean if people just go *poof*. So I rarely fight with people and stuff.
Live. Laugh. Love. =)
And I have a simple solution. Hopefully, I'll kick the bucket FIRST!! So, I will have all of them with me. Till the end.
PS: I had linked u na, so i used ur blog title to navigate from your blog to mine.
Only one post displays that way.
SO I asssumed the other posts will not have a comment section as well. Silly me. And sorry about that. I WANTED to leave a comment.
So I hollered for you in the shoutbox. :)
was abt to sleep.... :(
very heavy post...n rite now i cnt commnt heavily :( :P
death is inevitable :(
n the only certain thing is that nothing is certain here in universe.
I STILL believe that all the stars that i can see in the sky are the d departed souls of all our loved ones.
are u bitten by a blogging bug chimpu?? .. do lend some bugs to lenu. she is in dire need of them :P
love n hugsssssssss
ummaaahhhhhhhhhhh :)
Great!
Congratulations!!!
my biggest fear is also losing someone very close to death..
ah! death can't be avoided u see..so its better tat we all liv happily until we live.
yes,its my biggest fear as well.life's alwez not fair,is it?
@divi
i guessed so, we share a name ;)
Hopefully, I'll kick the bucket FIRST!! So, I will have all of them with me.
LOL sometimes i wish for the same :D
@P.S - not silly, you have a point there :D i loved that shout box thing :))
btw, cute pic :)
@preeti
lol...
moti, its not any blogging bug...for some reasons i just couldn't sleep so had to blog :(
its like writing things that are running in ur mind :(
@david
congratulations? wat for?
@PJ
i know sweety!
u sometimes talk like an adult, and i love it :)
@anwi
life is unfair anwi...most of the times.
divz...this post is soo hard and touchin yaar...but reading the whole post i remebered a quote which i saved long bac
"Love is stronger than death even though it can't stop death from happening, but no matter how hard death tries it can't separate people from love. It can't take away our memories either. In the end, life is stronger than death.”
life is not easy as i came to know all in past few months it very difficult to know a lot of things :)...and lossing someone dear to us is big loss but we have to make them proud that they r dear to us :)...
u touched many parts of my heart in this post :)...
urs..hemu..
I am not commenting much on this post, as I don't find anything to.
It is worth giving a thought to such things about life.
Anyways, hope ur next post reflects ur chirpy self.
Take care.
Sweetie, thats inevitable, we all know and sooner or later, everyone has to deal with it, but as long as memories remain in our heart, they are still alive, too.
Not fair, i know, but we dont have any other options, thats life, and i truly believe that after this life i will get a chance to be with those i love :)
btw... wheres ur blogroll!!! :P
lol, ankur, you are mean :x
@Lena
not at all... i m just stating the fact!!! :D
I can relate to a recent loss in the extended family and I agree that losing one's spouse is a big loss indeed..
I do believe that we would be seeing them all again someday :)
take care mate.. cheers...
@hemu
thats a lovely quote :) and i agree with whatever u said in ur comment :)
@indu
sure, lets see if anything nice happens to me in the next few hours ;)
@ankur
u stole my blogroll :x :x :x
@janu
;)
@arv
I do believe that we would be seeing them all again someday :)
i hope so :) Thanks arv!
i was to stole ur template also, par maine socha ki bachchi rone lagegi kya fayda!! :P :P
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
I LOVE the new page.
Maha super duper cute!!!
*tries to hug page*
@ankur
arre waaaaaahhhh aapko bacchon ke feelings ka bhi kadar hai!! unbelievable!
@div
hehe i know! tu mujhse apne chocs share karne ke tayyar ho gayi but i cant share my template it with u :P
Miss,I must compliment you for bringing up this topic- I can write another 800 page harry potter on this :)
Well,about death- its true that people die.Inevitably.Its a truth that can not be denied but there is another equally prominent truth that people live and they have lived amazing lives right here on this planet.
I have lost some dear ones too in past,just like you.But,I dont know if you will call me stone hearted or something, but everytime I saw them die- I felt good.I felt its good for people to die and get elemental.That is to say,get closer to nature and if you are a believer in god,get closer to Him.
Carpe Diem` is what straightens this fear out for me.Hope it does the same for you too.
Blogrolling you,if its fine with you.See you around
Thanks mishra,
if u write 800 pages...i doubt if people would drop by to read all those 800 pages :P LOL
* but everytime I saw them die- I felt good*
dont lie! it never feels good :)
Thanks for the blogroll thing, will surely cu around :)
:) I know- I have not read any till now for the same reason.
I am believer in the fact that there is nothing called a transition phase.Its like there is only black and white,good and bad,fair and unfair and so on and so forth...Now you see my point ?
you mean there is only BIRTH and DEATH...and no life in between...na? :P :P
i dunno the answers... and honestly i don't crave em either...
just reminded me of a very nice song by Death Cab for Cutie - I will follow you into the dark...
take care sweetie
@vandi
how sweet :-* thanks darling!
**Death is certainly the most painful thing about life.
it is true, but it's not the greatest loss in life. you gotta move on
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