We are often made victims of CHANGE- Change in people, change in relationships, change in feelings. But what hurts the most is when this change takes its toll on relationships- when people don't seem to be the same anymore; feelings fade off and the relationship seems devoid of the spark that it initially boasted of.
And those feeling ripped off are the ones who don't change, whose feelings remain intact irrespective of time and who struggle to keep the relationship alive despite these changes disturbing the situations from time to time.
The initial days of dealing with change are indeed difficult coz fear of insecurity and feelings of being taken for granted surface. These are the testing days- the times that will send the strongest of the storms to shrivel the trust, to shatter your dreams and all in all to weaken the relationship.
How does one cope with these changes?
With time however things seem to get better if you build up your abilities to understand people and tune yourself to the changing conditions.
It hurts you less if you are capable of molding yourself according to changing people and situations, if you are able to figure out the actual reasons behind these changes. People change not because they want to but because they have to…because the situation or circumstances demands so. And the sooner you realize this, the better.
P.S- Happy birthday Ali ;). My best wishes coming your way, have a great time ;)
P.P.S- I still don't have Internet facility. Thanks to Sami and Lena for being so helpful in posting my posts :P
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